Pick Flowers Not Fights

Joshua seems to be all about Israel winning the fight. They are constantly in battle with another group, winning land and conquering others. For whatever reason, I don't like this Israel as much as I liked the lost in the wilderness Israel. They're still dependent on God, but they seem almost greedy. I know God promised them the land and gave them clear instructions on how to win it and how to fight for it, but they seem not very nice. I don't have time now to elaborate- it's time to go discuss Ecclesiastes with 18 year old girls!